A year and a half after it premiered, with well more than one million views, Green's video debunking one of the most enduring misconceptions about virginity is also one of the most popular segment she's ever recorded. For a lot of women and men , Green's message is hardly news, for any number of reasons. Several comments on the video, which still arrive almost daily, point that out. But other comments tell a different story: On the contrary, it was kind of unremarkable given the hype.
How does losing your virginity at just 13 REALLY affect you?
LOSING MY VIRGINITY - video dailymotion
Well, maybe my friends were just sluts, but we never did that. We preferred to daydream about our first fuck. Most of us had a similarly delusional script: Or something equally embarrassing. But our idyllic deflowering fantasies rarely came to fruition. In reality, most girls from my school lost their virginity slumped against a tree in an apple orchard, bark jabbing uncomfortably into their spines, in between rounds of beer pong.
You're told to either wait until marriage or to wait until it's with someone you love. However, that's not always the case, and whether you like it or not, losing your virginity is a memory that will stay with you forever. For most people, this does not include rose petals, candles, or Marvin Gaye. To get the real deal, we asked brave women to tell us about their first times. Prepare yourself: